Do what feels right

We have an access to the information our grandparents could only dream of, we can read a book on any subject you can think of, travel to the most remote places on Earth, learn languages. Everything is within our reach; yet we are failing terrible in our relationships, we have an enormous amount of people with depression and mental issues, we  raising kids who lack social skills, manners and discipline. 

Where have we gone wrong? With all the resources available we should master our lives and live happily with our eyes closed. 

I feel like we trust everyone else's but ourselves.  We have headache for three days and check google to see if we have cancer; our baby doesn't want to sleep, we hear 100 advises from tall the moms we know, and the confusion reaches the highest point.. So which one is the right one? They all are.. BUT you need to find your right answer. Listen to them all, but learn to filter, and then choose whats' right for you - don't blindly follow what other people are saying,, no matter how convincing they sound.  It is probably something that is working for them ,but it may not  be right for you.

It doesn't take long to feel overwhelmed as we get bombarded from everywhere , and it is very important to stop, think and listen to your inner-self.  You just need to be aware of the difference between fear and intuition.  Work with your intuition , add logic and you will be fine.

It is great to ask for an opinion, and/or do a research on something that we are unsure about, we feel uncertain or not in piece, but don't just follow it, because it work for some people. Remember you are NOT 'some people', you are unique, one off and matchless, therefore something completely opposite may be the best thing for you.

Like everything new, we need to practice those skills. They aren't easy, but after you try few times, you will become better it ,and eventually you will master it.

Don't worry about what others think of you - it is really none of your business. You can't please everyone - you are not the Nuttela jar. 

it's important to do what feel right to you, many will have opinions, only you know what feels best.

Start from today. I'm sure there are things in your life you need an answer for. Look inside - it is there.

Good Luck

​Iwona

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